LGBTQIA+ Therapists for Exploring Sexuality

Denver Therapists Specializing in LGBTQIA+ Issues and Gender Identity

Updated for 2025. Choosing a therapist is personal, and when your focus is gender identity and LGBTQIA+ needs, you deserve care that is skilled, affirming, and easy to access. This guide explains what gender-affirming therapy looks like, how to evaluate a provider, and the exact steps to book with confidence—today.

“Affirming therapy means you’re believed and supported—no tests, no gatekeeping, no pressure to ‘prove’ who you are.”

What “Gender-Affirming Therapy” Means in 2025

Affirmation first: Your name, pronouns, and lived experience are respected from the first contact.
Clinically informed: Therapists are trained in gender development, minority stress, and evidence-based care.
Safety-first environment: Clear boundaries, confidentiality, and transparent options for in-person and telehealth.
Your pace, your plan: No one is rushed; goals are collaborative and consent-based.e anxiety and depression symptoms

Who These Therapists Are & What They Help With

Credentials you’ll commonly see: LPC, LMFT, LCSW, PsyD/PhD—often with advanced training in LGBTQIA+ care.

Common focus areas:

Exploring gender identity/expression and navigating dysphoria
Relationship and family dynamics (partners, parents, kids)
Transition planning and documentation (when relevant and desired)
Coping with minority stress, anxiety, depression, and trauma
School/workplace advocacy and accommodations

Care coordination (with your consent): Letters/reports, collaboration with inclusive medical providers, and community resource referrals.

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Approaches You Might Encounter (and why they help)

Affirmative therapy: Centers your identity and goals.
CBT/DBT/ACT: Practical skills for emotion regulation, resilience, and values-aligned action.
Narrative therapy: Re-author your story in language that fits you.
Family therapy: Brings systems on board while safeguarding your autonomy.
Somatic & mindfulness tools: Ground the body and reduce distress.

How To Choose a Therapist Specializing in Gender Identity

Ask during a consult (10–15 minutes):

What training do you have specific to gender identity and LGBTQIA+ mental health?
How do you ensure sessions are affirming and consent-based?
What’s your approach to documentation (e.g., letters) if I need it?
How do you adapt care for neurodivergent clients (ADHD/autistic)?
What are your policies around privacy, crisis support, and telehealth?

Review logistics:

Insurance vs. private pay, superbills, sliding scale
Wait times, session length, emergency/crisis protocols
In-person, telehealth, or hybrid options

Red flags to avoid:

Gatekeeping or pressure to “prove” identity
Moralizing, outdated language, or misgendering
Unclear consent/confidentiality practices

Telehealth vs. In-Person vs. Hybrid (2025)

Option	Best For	Privacy & Comfort	Time/Travel	Cost Considerations	Pro Tips
Telehealth	Convenience, mobility, low sensory load	High—private space + headphones	Save travel time	Often similar to in-person	Have a backup private spot + headset
In-Person	Sensory cues, body-based work, structure	Clinic discretion needed	Travel & parking required	Standard rates	Ask about quiet rooms/sensory supports
Hybrid	Balanced schedule, flexibility	Mix of both	Alternate weeks	Same as above	Use tele for check-ins, in-person for deeper work

Tip: If privacy is a concern at home, try white noise, car-based telehealth (parked safely), or reserved community rooms.

What to Expect in the First 3 Sessions

Session 1: Intake & Safety
Share goals, context, and preferences. Set pronouns, boundaries, and communication preferences.

Session 2: Skills & Supports
Introduce practical tools (grounding, emotion regulation), clarify supports (friends, family, community).

Session 3: Plan & Cadence
Align on a workable plan (weekly/biweekly), refine goals, and confirm comfort with pace and approach.

Progress looks like reduced distress, better coping, deeper self-acceptance, and stronger support systems—not perfection.

Cost, Insurance & Privacy for Denver

Insurance & superbills: Clarify how diagnoses are used for reimbursement and what that means for your privacy.
Sliding scale: Ask about reduced-fee slots and payment plans.
Confidentiality: Review how your information is protected, including for telehealth platforms.
Documentation: Understand timelines and informed-consent processes if you need letters.

How iAmClinic Helps (and why many Denver clients choose us)

Minority Led & Inclusion Focused: We work to create a truly diverse, equitable environment where every client is respected.
50+ Years of Cumulative Experience: Our team invests in ongoing training and certifications to stay current and effective.
LGBTQIA+ Is Our Community: We’re a proud, queer-led practice and active advocates for LGBTQIA+ individuals and families.
Clinically informed, safety-first care: You’ll get a clear plan, practical tools, and a pace that fits you.
Flexible access: In-person, telehealth, or a hybrid that protects your privacy and time.

2025 Extras Our Readers Care About (often missing elsewhere)

Neurodiversity-affirming care: Sensory-aware sessions, structured agendas, and flexible communication for ADHD/autistic clients.
Family & partner involvement that centers you: Options to include loved ones while keeping your autonomy and goals primary.
Documentation with dignity: Transparent, collaborative processes for letters and advocacy when needed—no demeaning hoops.
Telehealth privacy playbook: Concrete tips for secure, interruption-free sessions (space setup, headphones, contingency plans).

Step-by-step: Book With Confidence Today

Shortlist 2–3 therapists whose profiles match your needs (identity expertise, approach, logistics).
Schedule a brief consult and use the checklist above to gauge fit.
Pick the best fit and book your first session—you can always recalibrate after Session 1.

Ready when you are: If your goal is affirming, Denver-based therapy with specialists in gender identity, our team is here to help—at your pace.

Book a consultation with iAmClinic today

FAQs

How do I know a therapist truly affirms gender identity (not just “accepts” it)?

They consistently use your name/pronouns, never ask you to “prove” identity, and explain options without moralizing. Their training and examples show real experience.

What should I ask in a 15-minute consult to gauge fit?

Ask about gender-identity training, approach to consent, documentation processes, and how they adapt care for your needs (e.g., trauma, neurodiversity).

Do I need a diagnosis for insurance—and what does that mean for privacy?

Insurance typically requires a diagnosis. Ask how it’s determined, where it’s stored, and whether a superbill/self-pay option better fits your privacy goals.

Can a therapist help with letters for hormones or surgery?

Often, yes—using an informed-consent model when appropriate. Ask about criteria, timelines, and how collaboration with medical providers works.

Is telehealth as effective as in-person for gender-affirming care?

For many needs, yes. Consider your sensory preferences, privacy, and schedule. Hybrid can balance convenience with deeper in-person work.

How do I involve my partner or family without losing autonomy?

Set clear goals first. Invite loved ones to specific sessions focused on support education—your therapist should keep your autonomy centered.

What are red flags for covert conversion-style practices?

Pressure to change identity, pathologizing language, misgendering, or reluctance to use correct pronouns are all signs to walk away.

What if I’m in immediate distress between sessions?

Ask your therapist about crisis protocols and save LGBTQIA+ support resources in your phone. If you’re unsafe, call local emergency services.

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AJ

Davies

LPCC

She/Her

I identify as a lesbian/queer cis-woman and strive to create a therapeutic space where people of all identities feel welcomed and affirmed. As a recently graduated LPCC, I bring training in trauma-informed clinical psychology with a specialization in trauma and global mental health.

I am a Licensed Professional Counselor Candidate trained in trauma-informed clinical psychology with a specialization in trauma and global mental health. My experience includes working with individuals navigating developmental and complex trauma, OCD, anxiety, depression, cultural assimilation, LGBTQIA+ identity, disordered eating, ADHD, and grief and loss. At the heart of my work is a commitment to fostering an inclusive, compassionate environment where you can reconnect with your own capacity for healing.

My clinical approach integrates relational psychodynamic and intersubjective frameworks with feminist and existential perspectives, alongside evidence-based practices such as CBT and ACT. I also incorporate somatic and parts work, honoring the connection between mind and body while weaving in mindfulness, self-compassion, and relational depth.

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Derek

Torres Diaz

LPCC

He/Him

I honor, as well as aspires to create, spaces where all identities feel safe and welcome. I whole heartedly believe that none of us are inherently broken, all we need is empathy and guidance to become the best version of ourselves. As a therapist, I am on a constant journey of growth and education. This allows me to approach and see therapeutic spaces and alliances with an open-mind and willingness to aid you in your own personal journey of growth.

As a gay latino cis-man, I understand the importance of finding and creating safe spaces for all our identities. I wholeheartedly believe that none of us are inherently broken and that through compassion, connection, and understanding we can truly become the best versions of ourselves. By embracing all the parts that make us…us, we truly become whole, moving forward towards our desired futures.

Looking back at my own therapeutic experiences, I can’t help but feel appreciation for the spaces of deep empathy and understanding I was able to explore and discover who I was. That appreciation is what motivates and inspires my own therapeutic practice, in hopes of being able to create a similar space for you. I graduated from the University of Denver with my Masters in Arts in International Disaster Psychology, focused on Trauma and Global Mental Health. I’ve worked with individuals facing trauma, anxiety, depression, sexuality concerns, as well as couples seeking to better their relationship and couples seeking to explore different relationship styles.

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E

Adams

LPCC

she/her

Choosing to gaze inward can be a strong yet vulnerable path, tuned to your unique life experience. Opting to be seen in these moments is a monumental process. With YOU as the empowered expert of your life, we will navigate the transpersonal realm to jointly explore and make meaning of issues. From in utero to present moment, increasing mindful awareness and discovery is a method to alter well-worn paths within. Utilizing mind, body and intentional honesty in session can flex cognition and expand new potential sequences.Whether couples counseling or individual, I honor your integrity and bravery.

“Assume you have more in common with someone than not”
– Rick Doblin, Psychedelic/Humanitarian/Activist and founder of MAPS. MAPS convention Denver, June 2023.

Clients and others ask – why would you want to listen to someone’s problems every day? In our shared humanity, that statement is short sighted. We are all interconnected in a complex way on a shared path. How we decipher which path, how to share it is more accurate to reflect the therapeutic lens held in sessions. Becoming a therapist is my third career I am a licensed general contractor (no longer practicing), a barber and a transpersonal mental health counselor. My time in the construction field, behind the barber chair and as a single parent has peaked my interest in men’s mental health, religious trauma and couples therapy. During the pandemic, behind the barber chair, clients began to verbalize and or show signs of depression, isolation and hopelessness. I did not know how to respond and felt there was a call to action. The question at that time is the present question, how can I best serve others and reduce harm? As a single parent with teens, I opted back into graduate school. The journey reignited the ol’ feelings from being a 90’s kid, Woodstock 99 of burn it to the ground, no institutions type of resurgence. While dealing with my own anger (I long thought had subsided- surprise!), I was able to create healthy management skills with some aged challenges and wrap up a degree. After school, the real work has begun in the next professional chapter. My intentions are clear, my mind/body/soul ready to serve others in the lens of harm reduction. With that as the foundation of service, I welcome clients to the therapy realm.

The most common approach to therapy used is transpersonal. While mindfulness is the buzz, the transpersonal extends further to create impact and meaning of these broad concepts to an individual experience. Transpersonal brings in the entirety of a client – mind, body, soul, spirit. The individual sense of self and beyond self (near death experiences, intuition, spirituality, altered states of consciousness) are all used to inform the setting. This may include Somatic Exploration, IFS, NARM, EFT, Gestalt, Existential, Mindfulness and most importantly humanistic approaches. There may be opportunities for DBT, CBT, NVC. Each client will be considered on an individual basis of wholeness to discern and co create a therapeutic path. If you don’t know what the above means, that is ok! Therapy will be co created, defined and explained openly. As we know, plans change. As a client’s needs change, so will the plan. There is opportunity to discover, seek, change, adapt and restart. I believe that everyone has the ability to heal individually, collectively and create intentional community.

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Eric

Schaffner

LPCC

He/Him

I welcome all of your identities and strive to create a safe space where you feel empowered to show up fully as you are. I specialize in guiding clients grappling with depression, anxiety, isolation, sexual identity, gender identity, spiritual crisis and integration, religious trauma, personal and spiritual inquiry, career change and other life transitions.

My approach to therapy is to accompany my clients in rediscovering their true self, their source of self-compassion, their innate healing power, their autonomy, and their personal authority.

I believe in therapy because it has been a key tool in my own healing journey. Growing up as a gay/queer cisgender male in a conservative religious community left me struggling with worthlessness. I felt divorced from my body, my spirit, and the wider world around me. I found self-compassion and healing through my work with caring therapists, mindfulness meditation, and personal inquiry.

I collaborate with clients to address the psychology of the whole person. I work primarily from a person-centered approach and am training in techniques such as Gestalt, Internal Family Systems (IFS), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), and somatic interventions. When it fits the client, I like to incorporate mindfulness meditation to help clients build resilience and self-resourcing skills. I am passionate about these approaches because I’ve personally witnessed how using these techniques to integrate mind and body can enable profound healing.

Prior to becoming a counselor, I worked first as a molecular biologist, then as a software engineer. Although I found both fields interesting, I found that my real passion was exploring how my own mind worked and healing the false body-mind split. The more I discovered, the more passion I felt to share that experience with others.

I hold a BA in Molecular, Cellular, and Developmental Biology/French Language from the University of Colorado at Boulder, and am completing my master’s degree from Naropa University in Clinical Mental Health Counseling in the Mindfulness-Based/Transpersonal concentration.

Credentials:

Training in Internal Family Systems (IFS), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) and Psychedelic Integration

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Isaac

Archuleta

LPC

He/They

After confronting devastating questions of sexuality and gender with parents who pastored a conservative church, Isaac quickly realized there were very few resources for his family. He also learned that there were very few safe places where he could learn about his true identity without judgment or predetermined agendas. Over 10 years later, Isaac has grown the iAmClinic team to 10+ therapists and launched a sister company, iAmCouncil, to provide life and relationship coaching to individuals nationwide!

I chose counseling because I was once a young closeted kid that felt incredibly lonely, anxious, and lost. In wanting to heal and grow, it was important for me to find the answers for kids like me and families like mine, so that we could all experience the true connection and utter satisfaction I so deeply craved. It was with this motivation that iAmClinic was born. Before iAmClinic and the completion of my graduate studies, I spent time working in Child Protection and served as a project supervisor for a counseling program in the nonprofit world. I also worked in the main operating room at The Children’s Hospital.

As a professional counselor, I use the techniques and insights given to the field of talk therapy by seminal authors/researchers like Pia Mellody, Terrence Real, Peter Levine, and Bessel van der Kolk. I interweave research-based modalities like Neurofeedback, Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing, and Somatic Experiencing, as well as empirically-based theories such as Attachment Theory, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and Feminist Theory into my practice. As I stepped out of the closet with anxiety, depression, and many unwanted behavioral patterns, I saw my healing journey as not only personally necessary, but as professionally worth it. I not only wanted to talk the talk, but also walk the walk. And as a clinician I believe it is important to be equipped with the knowledge, treatment interventions, and the skills to be effective in all facets of my clients lives so that I can offer the healing that changed my life to others. I believe in therapy, not because I have read a bunch of books, but because I am one major success story. When clients walk out of my office for the last time, I want them to feel the same liberty, connectedness, and internal peace therapy helped me discover.

Credentials

Master of Arts in Clinical Mental Health Counseling
15 Years Of Experience
Served as Executive Director for one of the longest standing LGBTQIA+ organizations
Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) Certified
Neurofeedback trained in the Othmer Method
He is invited to speak at conferences and forums across the nation, and a contributor to The Huffington Post

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Jo

Hazelton

LPCC

They/Them

Therapy can help us discover our authentic selves and craft a meaningful existence. I work with adults who seek to deepen their relationship to self, as well as their connection to others. My therapeutic practice challenges the idea that we must strive for perfection through productivity and instead asks: Where are these pressures coming from? How can we learn to recognize our inner voice and desires? How do we live a life that is aligned with our values?

How can we learn to recognize our inner voice and desires? How do we live a life that is aligned with our values? My identities as a white, non-binary-trans, queer therapist and educator greatly inform my practice. Some of my specific focus areas are: life/identity/career transitions, gender, sexuality, grief-and-loss, anxiety, and depression. Therapeutic modalities I rely on include Person-Centered, Humanistic Existential, Trauma Informed Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Solution Focused Brief Therapy, Narrative Therapy, and Internal Family Systems. I accept individual and relationship(s) clients ages 18 and up. My counseling philosophy combines intersectional feminist practices with existential meaning-making. Together, we will confront ideas such as choice, power, freedom, responsibility, and self-acceptance.

My goal is to create an inclusive space where your identities are welcomed and celebrated. My background as a professional educator informs much of the work I do with clients and I strive to incorporate systems based perspectives into the counseling space in an effort to highlight oppressive forces and deconstruct societal expectations. I hold a master’s degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from the University of Colorado, Denver and am a Licensed Professional Counselor Candidate in the state of Colorado. Outside the office, you can usually find me surrounded by food, friends, books, and community.

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Katie

Cass

LPC, BCN

She/Her

I began working in the community mental health field in 2012 in northern Arizona, learning the best practices for working with culturally diverse populations addressing a breadth of mental health concerns. I believe in a holistic approach that involves assessing our brain, mind and context. Our thoughts, values and beliefs are molded by not only our experiences but informed and endless bombardment of information. Peace and ease come from alignment of all of our parts.

In addition to working with the individual, I work with couples using the Gottman Method emphasizing communication and recognizing how trauma impacts our experience in intimate relationships.

Credentials

Master of Arts in degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling
Board certified with the Biofeedback Certification International Alliance (BCIA)
Trained in Gottman Method

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Research consistently shows that LGBTQIA+ individuals experience mental health challenges at disproportionate rates. These disparities are systemic in nature and can be addressed through informed, affirming care.

Understanding Mental Health Disparities in the LGBTQIA+ Community

The Numbers Tell a Story

LGBTQIA+ adults are twice as likely to experience mental health conditions compared to heterosexual, cisgender adults
Depression affects nearly 40% of LGBTQIA+ individuals
Anxiety disorders impact approximately 30% of the community
Over 40% of transgender individuals report having attempted suicide
LGBTQIA+ youth are four times more likely to attempt suicide than their peers

These statistics underscore the urgent need for accessible, affirming mental health care—particularly for young people during critical developmental years.

Root Causes of Mental Health Disparities

Mental health disparities in the LGBTQIA+ community stem from external stressors rather than inherent traits.

Minority stress—the chronic stress experienced by marginalized groups—plays a central role. This stress may include:

Workplace or school discrimination
Family rejection
Harassment or violence in public spaces
Internalized negative beliefs about one’s identity

Healthcare discrimination is another significant factor. Experiences of judgment, refusal of care, or lack of provider knowledge create barriers to seeking help and can worsen outcomes.

Common Mental Health Challenges in the LGBTQIA+ Community

While every experience is unique, certain mental health concerns appear more frequently within the LGBTQIA+ population.

Depression and Anxiety

Depression and anxiety are the most prevalent mental health challenges among LGBTQIA+ individuals and are often linked to chronic stress, discrimination, and social isolation.

Depression may include:

Persistent sadness or emptiness
Loss of interest in activities
Changes in sleep or appetite
Feelings of hopelessness or worthlessness

Anxiety may include:

Excessive worry or fear
Panic attacks
Social anxiety
Heightened concern about safety, disclosure, or discrimination

Developmental Trauma and PTSD

Trauma is unfortunately common and may result from:

Childhood rejection or bullying
Conversion therapy attempts
Hate crimes or harassment
Workplace or medical discrimination

Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) can present as intrusive memories, nightmares, hypervigilance, or avoidance behaviors. Many LGBTQIA+ individuals also experience complex trauma (or developmental trauma) due to repeated exposure to discrimination over time.

Substance Use Disorders

Substance use disorders occur at higher rates in the LGBTQIA+ community, often as a coping mechanism for minority stress, trauma, or untreated mental health conditions.

Alcohol use disorders affect ~25% of LGBTQIA+ individuals, compared to 5–10% of the general population
Historically, bars and clubs served as some of the few safe social spaces, which may normalize heavy drinking
Substances are sometimes used to manage anxiety, depression, or identity concealment

The Importance of Affirming Mental Health Care

Not all therapy is created equal. For LGBTQIA+ clients, affirming care is essential.

What Makes Therapy LGBTQIA+-Affirming

Affirming therapy includes:

Consistent use of chosen name and pronouns
Knowledge of LGBTQIA+ terminology and lived experiences
Recognition of minority stress and systemic factors
Explicit rejection of conversion therapy or pathologizing views

Affirming therapists engage in ongoing education, reflect on personal biases, and approach care with cultural humility.

The Impact of Non-Affirming Care

Non-affirming therapy can be actively harmful. Potential harms include:

Increased shame or self-doubt
Minimization of discrimination-related stress
Attempts to change sexual orientation or gender identity

These approaches fail to address root causes and can retraumatize clients, making affirming care critical for effective treatment.

Finding the Right Mental Health Support

With the right tools and questions, finding affirming care becomes more manageable.

Questions to Ask Potential Therapists

Consider asking:

“What experience do you have working with LGBTQIA+ clients?”
“How do you approach therapy with transgender / lesbian / gay / bisexual clients?”
“What is your stance on conversion therapy?”

Clear, confident answers indicate competence and safety.

Red Flags vs. Green Flags

Red Flags

Discomfort discussing LGBTQIA+ topics
Outdated or pathologizing language
Suggesting identity is the cause of distress

Green Flags

Inclusive language and pronoun usage
Demonstrated knowledge of LGBTQIA+ issues
Curiosity and respect for your lived experience

Trust your instincts. If a therapist does not feel right, it is appropriate to continue your search.

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Specialized Treatment Approaches

Several therapeutic modalities are especially effective for LGBTQIA+ mental health concerns.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

Affirming CBT helps clients:

Challenge internalized homophobia or transphobia
Reframe negative thought patterns
Build coping skills for stress and discrimination

Trauma-Informed Therapy

Trauma-informed approaches emphasize safety, empowerment, and choice. Common modalities include:

EMDR
Trauma-focused CBT
Somatic therapies

These approaches recognize the role of past trauma in present symptoms.

Family and Couples Therapy

Affirming family and couples therapy can support:

Coming-out processes
Relationship communication
Navigating societal discrimination together

Internal link suggestion: Link to couples or family therapy services.

Building Resilience and Community Support

Professional therapy is most effective when paired with strong social support and self-care strategies.

The Power of Community Connection

LGBTQIA+ individuals with strong community ties experience better mental health outcomes. Community may include:

LGBTQIA+ social or support groups
Community centers
Online spaces

These connections reduce isolation and provide validation and role models.

Developing Coping Strategies

Effective coping strategies may include:

Mindfulness or meditation
Physical activity
Creative expression
Identity-affirming spiritual practices

Self-advocacy—setting boundaries and seeking support—is also essential for long-term wellbeing.

FAQs

How do I know if my therapist is LGBTQIA+-affirming?

Affirming therapists use inclusive language, ask about pronouns, demonstrate cultural competence, and never suggest changing your identity.

Is it normal to feel anxious about coming out to a therapist?

Yes. Many people have anxiety due to past negative healthcare experiences. A good therapist will respect your pace and create safety.

Can therapy help with internalized homophobia or transphobia?

Yes. Affirming therapy can help identify, understand, and challenge internalized negative beliefs over time.

What if I can’t find affirming care locally?

Telehealth has expanded access significantly. Many online platforms allow filtering for LGBTQIA+-affirming providers.

How should I handle discrimination from healthcare providers?

Document incidents, report when appropriate, and seek care elsewhere. Discrimination is unacceptable, and affirming providers exist.

Is medication ever necessary?

Medication can be helpful for some individuals and should be decided collaboratively with a qualified provider. Many benefit from a combination of therapy and medication.

You Deserve Affirming Care

Your mental health matters, and you deserve care that supports your authentic self. Finding the right therapist may take time, but it is a worthwhile investment in your wellbeing.

At iAmClinic, many of our therapists are members of the LGBTQIA+ community themselves, with over 50 years of cumulative experience providing affirming, culturally competent care.

Ready to start your healing journey?
Schedule a free consultation to find a therapist who understands you.

Crisis Resources

If you are experiencing thoughts of self-harm, please seek immediate support:

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 988
LGBT National Hotline: 1-888-843-4564
Local emergency services

If you or a loved one need help to using affirming care to develop a greater sense of pride around your sexuality

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Queer Family Therapy: Embracing & Supporting LGBTQIA+ Families

For many, families are the bedrock of society, providing love, support, and a sense of belonging. However, for many LGBTQIA+ individuals and families, the journey to building healthy, affirming relationships can be fraught with challenges. From navigating societal stigma and discrimination to addressing internalized negative beliefs, families with a queer- or trans-identifying member often face unique hurdles that can strain their connections and well-being.

This is where queer family therapy comes in– a specialized approach to mental health support that recognizes and validates the distinct experiences and identities of LGBTQIA+ individuals and families. By fostering a safe, inclusive, and affirmative environment, queer family therapists can help LGBTQIA+ clients navigate the complexities of their relationships, identities, and lived experiences.

The Importance of Culturally Competent Therapy

For too long, the mental health field has been dominated by heteronormative and cisnormative perspectives, failing to adequately address the specific needs and challenges faced by the LGBTQIA+ community. Queer AND Trans family therapies challenge this status quo by centering the voices, experiences, and identities of LGBTQIA+ individuals and families.

Culturally competent therapists understand the unique stressors and challenges faced by LGBTQIA+ families, such as navigating coming out processes, addressing internalized homophobia or transphobia, as well as dealing with differences in religious beliefs and societal stigmas and discrimination. They also recognize the intersectionality of identities, acknowledging how factors like race, ethnicity, socioeconomic status, and disability can compound the experiences of LGBTQIA+ individuals and families.

By creating a space where clients feel truly seen, heard, and validated, queer family therapists can help LGBTQIA+ individuals and their families build resilience, acceptance, and healthy coping mechanisms. A culturally competent therapist will help you prioritize your attachment over winning a debate.

Addressing Unique Challenges

LGBTQIA+ individuals and families often face a range of unique challenges that can impact their relationships and overall well-being. These can include:

1. Coming Out and Identity Formation: The process of coming out and embracing one’s LGBTQIA+ identity can be complex and emotionally charged, impacting family dynamics and relationships.

2. Societal Stigma, Religion, and Discrimination: LGBTQIA+ individuals and families continue to face stigma, discrimination, and marginalization in various aspects of their lives, which can take a toll on their mental health and relationships.

3. Family Rejection and Estrangement: Unfortunately, many LGBTQIA+ individuals experience rejection or estrangement from their families of origin due to their identities, leading to feelings of loss, grief, and trauma.

4. Legal and Systemic Barriers: LGBTQIA+ families may face legal and systemic barriers when it comes to issues like marriage equality, adoption rights, and access to healthcare, adding additional stress and uncertainty to their lives.

5. Intersectionality and Compounded Marginalization: LGBTQIA+ individuals who hold multiple marginalized identities (e.g., race, ethnicity, disability) may experience compounded forms of oppression and discrimination, further impacting their well-being and relationships.

Through queer family therapy, LGBTQIA+ individuals and families can find support in navigating these challenges, processing their experiences, and building resilience and healthy coping strategies. Start your journey today with iAmClinic!

Therapeutic Approaches and Best Practices

Queer family therapists employ a range of therapeutic approaches and best practices to best support their LGBTQIA+ clients. These may include:

1. Affirmative Therapy: This approach focuses on validating and affirming LGBTQIA+ identities, experiences, and relationships, rather than pathologizing or attempting to change them.

2. Intersectional Lens: Recognizing and addressing the intersections of multiple marginalized identities and their impact on mental health and well-being.

3. Trauma-Informed Care: Acknowledging and addressing the potential trauma experienced by LGBTQIA+ individuals and families due to societal oppression, rejection, and discrimination.

4. Strengths-Based Approach: Focusing on the resilience, strengths, and assets of LGBTQIA+ individuals and families, rather than solely emphasizing deficits or problems.

5. Family Systems Theory: Understanding and addressing the complex dynamics and interactions within LGBTQIA+ family systems, including chosen families and families of origin.

6. Advocacy and Community Engagement: Providing resources, referrals, and connections to LGBTQIA+ community organizations and support systems.

By employing these approaches and best practices, queer family therapists can create a safe, affirming, and transformative space for LGBTQIA+ individuals and families to heal, grow, and thrive.

Finding Culturally Competent Support

If you are an LGBTQIA+ individual or family seeking mental health support, it is crucial to find a therapist or counselor who is culturally competent and affirming of your identities and experiences. Here are some tips for finding the right queer family therapist:

Find a therapist who identifies as part of the LGBTQIA+ community.
Look for therapists who specialize in LGBTQIA+ issues or queer family therapy.
Check if the therapist has received specific training or certifications in LGBTQIA+ affirmative therapy.
Read reviews or testimonials from other LGBTQIA+ clients to gauge the therapist’s cultural competence and affirmative approach.
Ask about the therapist’s approach to intersectionality and how they address multiple marginalized identities.
Inquire about the therapist’s involvement or connections with the local LGBTQIA+ community.
Trust your instincts – if a therapist makes you feel uncomfortable or invalidated, it’s okay to seek out someone else.

Remember, you deserve a safe, affirming, and supportive space to address your mental health and relationship needs as an LGBTQIA+ individual or family.

Conclusion

Queer family therapy represents a powerful and necessary approach to supporting the unique needs and experiences of LGBTQIA+ individuals and families. By fostering a culturally competent, affirmative, and inclusive environment, queer family therapists can help their clients navigate the complexities of their identities, relationships, and lived experiences.

Whether it’s addressing internalized negative beliefs, processing trauma, building resilience, or strengthening family connections, queer family therapy offers a transformative space for healing, growth, and self-acceptance. Because it is an imperative to embrace diversity, the importance of culturally competent mental health support for the LGBTQIA+ community cannot be overstated.

If you or a loved one are seeking queer family therapy services, remember that you deserve to feel seen, heard, and validated in your identities and experiences. With the right support and resources, LGBTQIA+ individuals and families can build strong, healthy, and affirming relationships that celebrate their authentic selves.

FAQ

Queer family therapy is a specialized approach to mental health support that recognizes and validates the distinct experiences, identities, and relationships of LGBTQIA+ individuals and families. It provides a safe, inclusive, and affirmative space to address the unique challenges and issues faced by queer families.

Queer family therapy can benefit LGBTQIA+ individuals, couples, and families, including those navigating coming out processes, addressing internalized phobias, rebuilding relationships after family rejection, or seeking support for their identities and relationships.

Traditional family therapy approaches may not adequately address the specific needs and experiences of LGBTQIA+ individuals and families. Queer family therapy centers LGBTQIA+ voices, identities, and perspectives, and employs affirmative, trauma-informed, and intersectional approaches.

Look for therapists who specialize in LGBTQIA+ issues or queer family therapy, have received specific training or certifications in LGBTQIA+ affirmative therapy, and have experience working with the LGBTQIA+ community. Check their approach to intersectionality and involvement with the local LGBTQIA+ community.

Queer family therapists can provide a safe and validating space for LGBTQIA+ individuals to explore and process internalized negative beliefs about their identities. They can help challenge these beliefs, foster self-acceptance, and build resilience. It is also relieving to have a therapist who is also part of the LGBTQIA+ community to help destigmatize and neutralize elements of the queer or trans experiences that are often stigmatized.

Yes, queer family therapy can be beneficial for families with LGBTQIA+ youth or children, helping to navigate the coming out process, address family dynamics, and provide support and affirmation for their identities and experiences.

Queer family therapy can involve not only LGBTQIA+ individuals but also allies, family members, and loved ones who wish to better understand and support their LGBTQIA+ loved ones’ experiences and identities.

At IamClinic, we celebrate and support LGBTQIA+ families through our Family Therapy services. Strengthen your family bonds with compassionate and inclusive care.

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Rae

Stout

LPC, CCC

She/Her

I identify as a queer/pansexual cis-woman. I have nearly 15 years of experience in identity formation/exploration and trauma, particularly in the field of career trauma. I am also a certified career counselor. My clients often come to me looking to better understand themselves and how they wish to ‘show up’ in the world.

As the Clinical Director of iAmClinic, I also oversee the clinic’s human resources, hiring and student internship programs. Interested in working with the clinic? Check out our “Work with Us” page!

I work with clients to explore who they are, where they want to go and how they will get there. Often this looks like walking alongside my clients as they untangle their authentic parts of self from internalized shame and societal pressures in order to step into their own self-authored story. I incorporate mindfulness and narrative therapy techniques in my work, infused with cognitive information/cognitive behavioral modalities. Additionally, I am EMDR trained and use this in both mental health and career counseling settings.

Outside of work, I am an active volunteer in the National Career Development Association (NCDA), a branch of the American Counseling Association, serving as a co-chair for the Leadership Academy and prior on the Government Relations Committee. I also serve as an adjunct faculty member at a local Denver university, teaching in their graduate counseling program. In my spare time, I love spending time with my wife, our two dogs, and getting junior ranger badges from all the national parks.

Credentials

Master of Arts in Community Counseling
Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC)
Certified Career Counselor (CCC)
Clinical Supervisor Training
10+ Years of Experience
EMDR Trained
Additional training in Internal Family Systems (IFS), Attachment-focused EMDR, Trauma-informed Care and working with complex trauma
Adjunct Faculty, University of Colorado Denver
Certified Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI) Facilitator, Qualified Administrator for Strong Interest Inventory, YouScience and CliftonStrengths, Career Construction Training

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Amidst the vibrant culture of Denver, individuals on their journey of gender identity exploration can rely on the expertise of specialized therapists. These professionals offer a nurturing and affirming environment, assisting clients in navigating the complexities of discovering and embracing their true selves. With deep empathy and specialized knowledge, these therapists provide essential support throughout this personal and transformative journey.

If you’re seeking supportive mental health services, explore our LGBTQIA+ Friendly Medicaid Therapists Guide. At iAM Clinic, we understand the unique challenges faced by the LGBTQIA+ community, and this guide is designed to help you find inclusive therapists who provide compassionate and respectful care, all accessible through Medicaid.

Understanding the Complexities of Gender Identity Exploration

Navigating gender identity is a deeply personal journey that can present a variety of challenges, each affecting mental health and well-being in unique ways:

Identity Exploration: Figuring out one’s gender identity can be a journey filled with questions and uncertainties, often leading to stress and anxiety.
Facing Biases: Dealing with societal prejudices and discrimination can take a toll on self-esteem and mental health.
Seeking Acceptance: Gaining acceptance from family, friends, and the broader social circle can be emotionally taxing.
Transitioning Process: Whether it’s a social, medical, or legal transition, each step comes with its own set of challenges, including navigating complex systems.

Addressing these issues with the support of a specialized therapist can lead to profound personal growth and well-being.

Practical Tips for Seeking Gender Identity Counseling

Finding the Right Therapist

1. Start with Research: Look for therapists who specialize in gender identity and have experience with LGBTQ+ issues. Online directories and local LGBTQ+ organizations can be great resources.

2. Verify Credentials: Ensure your therapist is licensed and has specific training or certifications in gender identity counseling.

3. Read Reviews: Client testimonials and reviews can provide insight into a therapist’s approach and effectiveness.

What to Expect During the Counseling Process

1. Initial Sessions: Your first few sessions will involve discussing your goals and establishing a rapport with your therapist.

2. Therapeutic Techniques: Therapists may use a variety of methods, including cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), narrative therapy, or affirmative therapy, tailored to your needs.

3. Ongoing Support: Counseling is a process, and regular sessions will help you work through challenges and celebrate progress.

Overcoming Challenges in Counseling

1. Maintain Open Dialogue: Honesty with your therapist about your feelings and challenges is crucial for effective therapy.

2. Set Manageable Goals: Break down your objectives into smaller, achievable steps.

3. Build a Support Network: Engage with supportive communities or groups to bolster your journey outside of therapy.

Therapists Specializing in Gender Identity Counseling in Denver

Meet Denver’s Gender Identity Counseling Experts

iAm Clinic

Background: Iam Clinic was established to address the unique health needs of the LGBTQ+ community, offering compassionate and inclusive healthcare services in a supportive environment.
Specialties: The clinic specializes in mental health therapy, hormone replacement therapy, and sexual health services, tailored to meet the specific needs of LGBTQ+ individuals.
Approach: Adopts a holistic approach, integrating mental, emotional, and physical health to provide comprehensive and personalized care for better health outcomes.
Focus: The clinic is dedicated to creating a safe and welcoming environment, empowering individuals to achieve their best health outcomes while honoring diverse identities and experiences. Start your journey with iAmClinic!

Dr. Jamie Anderson, PhD, LPC

Background: Dr. Anderson is a Licensed Professional Counselor with a PhD in Clinical Psychology.
Specialties: Expertise in gender identity, transgender issues, and LGBTQ+ mental health.
Approach: Utilizes cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) and affirmative therapy.
Focus: Extensive work with transgender youth and adults, guiding them through social and medical transitions.

Taylor Morgan, MSW, LCSW

Background: Taylor holds a Master’s in Social Work and is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker.
Specialties: Focus on gender dysphoria, non-binary identities, and family dynamics.
Approach: Employs narrative therapy and strengths-based approaches.
Focus: Helping clients navigate family acceptance and social stigmatization.

Dr. Alex Rivera, PsyD

Background: Dr. Rivera is a licensed clinical psychologist with a Doctor of Psychology degree.
Specialties: LGBTQ+ issues, trauma-informed care, and identity exploration.
Approach: Integrates trauma-focused therapy with holistic wellness practices.
Focus: Supporting clients in developing self-acceptance and coping strategies.

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ) About Gender Identity Counseling

Gender identity counseling is a specialized form of therapy aimed at helping individuals explore, understand, and affirm their gender identity. It supports those experiencing gender dysphoria and provides guidance through various transitions.

If you feel confused, anxious, or distressed about your gender identity, or need support with social, medical, or legal transitions, gender identity counseling can be very beneficial.

The first session is usually an introductory meeting where you discuss your background, current challenges, and goals for counseling. It’s time to start building a trusting relationship with your therapist.

Yes, therapy sessions are confidential. Therapists are bound by professional ethics and legal requirements to keep your information private.

Yes, involving family members can be helpful, especially in cases where family dynamics are a concern. Family counseling sessions can improve understanding and support within your family.

Finding the Right Support

Discover the supportive environment you need at iAm Clinic in Denver. Our team of expert counselors is dedicated to providing affirming, understanding, and professional care tailored to your unique needs. Contact us today to start your journey towards self-discovery and empowerment.

If you’re exploring your gender identity, finding the right therapist is crucial. Denver is home to many skilled and compassionate professionals who are here to support you. Whether you need help with self-acceptance, family dynamics, or transitioning, these specialized therapists can guide you towards a fulfilling and authentic life.

Take charge of your health with Iam Clinic! Discover our compassionate, inclusive LGBTQ+ healthcare services.
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Navigating relationships can be challenging for anyone, but for transgender individuals and couples, finding a safe and supportive environment to address their unique experiences and challenges is crucial. In Denver, trans-inclusive marriage counseling services are available to provide the understanding, validation, and guidance needed to foster healthy, thriving relationships. Discover LGBTQIA+ Affirming Therapy Options Covered by Medicaid.

Why Inclusive Counseling Matters

Transgender individuals often face a myriad of obstacles, both internally and externally, that can impact their mental health and relationships. Not only is the coming-out process challenging, but also discrimination, stigma, and a lack of understanding from society can contribute to feelings of confusion, anxiety, and depression. When seeking marriage counseling, it’s essential to find a therapist who not only understands the complexities of relationships but also has the knowledge and sensitivity to work with transgender clients.

Inclusive marriage counseling acknowledges and validates the experiences of transgender individuals and couples. It creates a non-judgmental space where clients can openly discuss their gender identity, the impact of transitioning on their relationship, and any other related concerns. By working with a therapist who affirms their identity, transgender couples can feel more comfortable and empowered to work through their challenges.

Unique Challenges in Trans Relationships

Trans couples often encounter specific and complex challenges:

Navigating Gender Identity

Transitioning Together: When one partner transitions, it can significantly alter the relationship dynamics, necessitating adaptation and mutual support.
Internalized Transphobia: Many trans individuals struggle with internalized negative beliefs, which can harm self-esteem and relationship satisfaction.

Social and Family Dynamics

Coming Out Journey: The process of coming out, whether individually or as a couple, can be filled with anxiety and stress, impacting how the relationship functions.
Family Acceptance Issues: A lack of acceptance from family members can lead to emotional distress and conflicts within the relationship.

Health and Well-being Considerations

Access to Competent Healthcare: Finding healthcare providers who are knowledgeable about trans-specific needs can be challenging and stressful.
Mental Health Concerns: Addressing mental health issues such as depression and anxiety is essential for maintaining a healthy and fulfilling relationship.

Inclusive marriage counseling addresses these challenges by providing a supportive space to process emotions, develop coping strategies, and strengthen communication skills. Therapists can help couples navigate the complexities of transition, build resilience, and foster a deeper understanding and help uncover the path that feels authentic and safe for the couple.

Overcoming Challenges Through Counseling

Transgender couples face unique challenges that can strain their relationships, such as navigating the transition process, dealing with societal stigma, and coping with mental health concerns. However, with the help of specialized marriage counseling, these couples can overcome obstacles and build stronger, more resilient partnerships.

Trans-inclusive marriage counseling provides a safe, supportive space for couples to discuss their experiences, fears, and hopes related to the transition process. Therapists can help couples develop effective communication strategies, foster empathy, and create a shared vision for their future. Counseling can also help couples learn strategies for managing stress, setting boundaries, and building a strong support system to cope with external pressures.

Furthermore, marriage counseling can address mental health challenges that may impact the individual and the relationship. By processing emotions, developing coping strategies, and strengthening resilience, couples can work towards overall well-being and a healthier partnership.

Ultimately, trans-inclusive marriage counseling helps couples build the skills needed to overcome challenges and create a loving, supportive relationship. By working with a knowledgeable, affirming therapist, transgender couples in Denver can navigate the complexities of their relationship and build a strong foundation for a thriving partnership.

Finding Trans-Friendly Marriage Counseling in Denver

When searching for trans-inclusive marriage counseling in Denver, it’s important to consider the therapist’s experience, approach, and credentials. Look for counselors who have specific training or expertise in working with LGBTQIA+ individuals and couples. Many therapists will state their specialties or areas of focus on their websites or online profiles. Learn more about finding an lgbtqia+ friendly therapist in denver!

Organizations such the Colorado Center for Clinical Excellence and the Colorado Counseling Association maintain directories of qualified mental health professionals, including those who specialize in LGBTQ+ issues. Additionally, referrals from local LGBTQIA+ community centers or support groups can be a valuable resource in finding a therapist who understands and affirms transgender identities.

At iAmClinic, we specialize in providing supportive counseling services for Transgender individuals and couples, along with their loved ones. Our mission is simple: to empower the LGBTQIA+ community and their families to foster internal solidarity, embrace authentic identities, and cultivate lasting relational well-being. With us, there’s no judgment—just unwavering support and hope. Take the first step towards a brighter, more affirming future. Contact iAmClinic today to embark on your journey towards healing and acceptance.

Counseling Approaches and Techniques

Various counseling centers and therapists in Denver employ a range of approaches tailored to the unique needs of transgender couples:

Affirmative Therapy

Supportive Environment: Creating a space where clients feel safe to explore their gender identity and relationship dynamics.
Identity Affirmation: Encouraging self-acceptance and pride in one’s identity.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

Addressing Negative Thought Patterns: Helping clients identify and change harmful thought patterns related to gender identity and relationship issues.
Building Coping Skills: Developing strategies to manage stress, anxiety, and depression.

Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)

Strengthening Emotional Bonds: Fostering deeper emotional connections between partners.
Improving Communication: Enhancing communication skills to resolve conflicts and build trust.

Family Systems Therapy

Navigating Family Dynamics: Assisting couples in managing relationships with family members.
Promoting Acceptance: Facilitating discussions to foster understanding and acceptance within families.

Practical Advice and Strategies for Overcoming Challenges

Navigating Transition

Open Communication: Encourage ongoing, honest conversations about feelings and expectations related to the transition.
Mutual Support: Ensure both partners feel supported throughout the process.
One Step At A Time: We keep all options open, testing the path, one step at a time, to ensure your arrival at safety, mutual respect and authenticity.

Communication Issues

Active Listening: Practice active listening to understand each other’s perspectives and needs.
Conflict Resolution: Use conflict resolution techniques to address disagreements constructively.

Family Dynamics

Setting Boundaries: Establish clear boundaries with family members to protect the relationship.
Seeking Mediation: Consider family mediation to facilitate difficult conversations and promote acceptance.
Coming Out to Children: Many parents find it difficult to come out to their children. We help you identify the safe route with care, love, and wisdom.

Frequently Asked Questions

Marriage counseling for transgender couples takes into account the unique experiences and challenges faced by individuals who are transitioning or have transitioned. Therapists who work with transgender couples should have a deep understanding of gender identity, the impact of societal stigma, and the specific issues that may arise in relationships where one or both partners are transgender. This specialized knowledge allows for a more tailored and effective approach to addressing the couple’s needs.

Transitioning can be a complex and emotional process that affects not only the individual but also their partner and the dynamics of their relationship. Marriage counseling can provide a safe space for couples to openly discuss their feelings, concerns, and expectations related to the transition process. Therapists can help couples develop effective communication strategies, build empathy and understanding, and work together to adapt to changes in roles and identities within the relationship.

When seeking a marriage counselor, transgender couples in Denver should look for therapists who have experience and training in working with LGBTQIA+ individuals and couples. It’s important to find a counselor who practices affirmative therapy, which validates and supports the experiences and identities of transgender individuals. Additionally, look for therapists who create a non-judgmental, inclusive environment and who are knowledgeable about the specific challenges faced by transgender couples.

Yes, marriage counseling can be a valuable resource for transgender couples facing family and societal pressures. Therapists can help couples develop strategies for managing stress, setting boundaries, and coping with external challenges. Through counseling, couples can also work on building a strong support system and fostering resilience in the face of adversity. Therapists may also provide resources and referrals to LGBTQIA+ support groups or community organizations that can offer additional support.

Transgender couples may benefit from marriage counseling if they are experiencing communication difficulties, struggling to navigate the challenges of transition, or facing other relationship issues. If you and your partner find yourselves frequently arguing, feeling disconnected, or having trouble understanding each other’s perspectives, marriage counseling can help. It’s also important to seek counseling if one or both partners are dealing with mental health concerns, such as depression or anxiety, which can impact the relationship. Ultimately, if you feel that you need support in strengthening your bond and building a healthy, fulfilling relationship, marriage counseling may be right for you.

Discover the Support You Need at iAmClinic

If you’re looking for relationship counseling in Denver, consider iAmClinic. With specialized expertise in LGBTQIA+ challenges, our counselors are dedicated to providing a safe, understanding, and affirming environment to help you and your partner navigate the complexities of your relationship. Whether you’re facing internal challenges, societal pressures, or family dynamics, iAmClinic is here to support your journey toward a stronger bond and a healthier relationship.

Reach out to us today and discover how we can assist you in achieving your relationship goals. Your path to a more connected and fulfilling partnership starts here.