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Episode Description
Episode Description: Isaac talks with today’s guest about coming out at an early age, what it was like and how they reflect on it now years later.
Episode Timestamps
Timestamps:
00:20 – Isaac introduces the idea of “Pastor’s Kids” and the guest who came out as a “PK” at a fairly young age
01:30 – The guest talks about their friends at the age of 15 and what it was like to come out to them
02:26 – Isaac and the guest discuss experiences of courage and desperation during the coming out process
04:00 – Isaac and the guest discuss wanting to be able to express their queerness outloud
05:22 – The guest discusses what they think made them come out at an earlier age
08:00 – The guest discusses being ostracized and their peers’ perceptions and treatment of them
10:10 – Isaac asks the guest how their parents responded
11:50 – The guest talks about their mental health and having anxiety and depression
13:45 – The guest talks about how it affected their family and their church when they came out
16:55 – Isaac asks the guest how they managed so much “responsibility” through their experience
18:47 – Isaac talks about why the guest’s body began to shut down after all of the stress they were experiencing
20:39 – Isaac and the guest discuss resiliency vs. repressing
22:25 – Isaac discusses how it is possible to experience resiliency while avoiding or coping
23:00 – Isaac and the guest discuss the idea of shutting down in order to “protect” others
25:00 – The guest talks about taking a step back whenever someone else is feeling upset
26:20 – The guest talks about going to couples therapy with a partner
27:00 – The guest talks about trying to find a therapist when they were younger
27:50 – Isaac talks about being able to feel safe enough to express your emotions
30:00 – The guest talks about their standards that have been set now
32:40 – Isaac and the guest talk about healthy boundaries
34:30 – Isaac discusses the feeling of acting like an emotional “chameleon”
36:14 – The guest discusses valuing privacy and feeling comfortable with certain people to share things
43:00 – Isaac asks the guest how they feel now that they have grown so much
44:00 – The guest talks about growth, and how it happens when you don’t expect it
46:50 – Isaac asks the guest what they would tell their past teenage self
48:00 – The guest talks about what they would have done differently
49:00 – The guest talks about how much pressure adults put on children to be “inspirational” or “extraordinary”
51:00 – Isaac closes the episode
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